Please stop your toxic reminders of that so called "mother"
What an Aunt.
You made me feel motherly love, you made me remember the 50% of my dad that i am not, the sardine eating, annoyance about bread and his small small habits.
I did a mission impossible and cooked sardine curry, it actually came out nice!! it was a miracle. like a blessing from my dad/grandmother!!
I appreciate that you cared but i don't think that you should bring up certain topics.
What a Mother I have , don't compare, and don't ask me to welcome her back into my life. She doesn't deserve it.
1) LIES My "so called mother" told me my dad passed away/died because of me. A person who prays? religious. and a person who was with him in his last second, who did not catch him when he fell.You have the audacity to accuse me for my dads death.
let me remind you i was in my room - for a split second to wear jeans to get into the ambulance but you accused me . what did u do from stopping him from falling? or the fact you didnt even get down on your knees to try CPR, u didnt even get ice for his head! you did not even move. you just went get ur phone and started calling people, no tears were streaming down your face, no sound, no screaming. where i was screaming as soon as i saw him on the floor but you? no. you just looked at him and me screaming. you did not console me, you didnt even check he was breathing, you did not help.
yet you, you as a mother accuse me of his death.
all i can say is you will regret that one day old lady.
2) Wedding. Yes, we sent invite from my husbands phone, I did not invite because you were insistant on wedding card. It was not necessary cause it was MCO, it was not necessary cause no one but you EXPECTED it. why just two people, who are "family" expect this? cause you want to forward to the world. Please consult any chinese person. after a parents passing they ask them to marry in 100days or 3years. yes i didnt mind 100days cause the only person who will and wants to take care of me is my husband, he and i both knew, without my husband i would have suicided. You as a mother would have abused me so much that i would have led myself to my own death. you are toxic and disgusting.
You did not realize a few situations happened! a) Saturday - Had to rush to shop, was pissed off Madam Chumpa came to my house and moved things so ended up locking my store room and my own room, my "so called mother" came after me, calling me a fucking bitch and wanting to hit me. WOW! she abused me that she would not come for my wedding with her hand raised, i SCREAMED "LEAVE ME ALONE". b) She left, she did not inform me you want me to message her after all her dirty accusations of me killing my father? of her wanting to hit me? of her saying shes a maid, no shes a queen now my dads not around she can go do what she wants, she would come home at 10/11pm when she could go out. she did not come back that night.
3) The lies of the Tuesday. Tuesday she came back to take her things, unfortunately, she found the door padlocked. she could have hired a lorry to take everything. Would that be fair for me on a 50% pay ? and what rights does she have to take EVERYTHING? she informed Amanda, Uncle Mohan, all the people she called liars, fakes and shit people. wow her son even informed my best friend but he vowed not to be dragged into this shit knowing me for ages. so no worries, but coming when i go to work shows you were up to something sneaky. you were up to no good. so your lies went viral - "you were kicked out" but hey liar. you left, on your own will, with your keys on saturday, you did not message or inform me or my husband where you are. We were so disgusted by you wanting to slap me, your accusations of abusing me i killed my dad? (which shit person says that!!!) and even telling my husband that when/if you die not to allow your daughter natasha to attend your funeral. what a sick thing to say. the manners you had to return back the tea ceremony ang pao to my husband shows what? that you suddenly don't accept him. and you have no daughter, so under what circumstances should i bow down and invite you for my wedding? you as a mother dont want to be there. you are sickening.
So here is your proof of disgusting lies.
you came anyways at night, we had CCTV! you took everything you could get your hands on.
you took a garbage bag and took everything you could from the fridge. Including 4 packets of milk, your favourite kids couldnt provide you? so please stop lying. stop saying you were kicked out. The news went from Penang, to india, to singapore, USA and more! wow i'm impressed. but this was payback right? revenge for 2017 when i asked people to ask you to come back (oh this story for another day!)
Your lies of tuesday and more have not ended.
so now you lied for 3 months you did not get food.
here is some whatsapp Chats.
so black and white not proof enough?
Here is your regular shit drama that papa hated of you saying you are a "maid". Hello, you did not work a day in your life. you got everything - food, tesco, wet market, all you did need to do is laundry and cook once in a while, papa asked you not to clean all the time if you are in pain or tired. You stopped going dialysis since 2020 March.
NEXT!
we went to clean the car in TESCO, because your son ruined my car feeding the cow throwing the plates, letting the dhal , rice and all spill when 12days. AND then there were cockroaches all over. We went to tesco to buy Mc D as valentines day, we asked you what you would like. so, the chat you mentioned, now how were you not fed for 3months?
you got what you wanted, i even remember buying you a nice sesame seed biscuit from market and you abused me at 7am saying i am not your ATM, yes, i am not. i am no ones ATM!!!!! you demanded tesco 3 times a week - yet wanted us to eat out... cause papa was fussy, your toxic abuse was too much.
food was for who? i dont know, didnt know. maybe your rich selfish Madam chumpa.
you stopped going to the market, i went, you asked for dhal. how is it you were not fed for 3 months if you did ask, i did give. i cant read minds. i bought you pumpkin (green) and asked you consistantly, what you wanted me to buy? but no, you just think i can read your mind.
I can't. no one can.
Dear Aunt , as much as i respect you, you don't respect us. you want to control us? you want us to patch up with people that toxic abused us. she sent a sarcastic message (like ha ha i know you are pregnant) its none of her business, we arent related. (that story on that bitch for another day!) but dear aunt, it is your loss. you lost people who arent rich but can care and respect you, but unfortunately.. respect works both ways, no matter what age each side is and who is elder or younger. it is sad that you disrespected us.
you say my husband would want me to patch up, no. he saw enough. he aint stupid. and im sorry if you think that we have no manners/respect/or are low class (maybe cause we are poor).
but thank you .
1) LIES My "so called mother" told me my dad passed away/died because of me. A person who prays? religious. and a person who was with him in his last second, who did not catch him when he fell.You have the audacity to accuse me for my dads death.
let me remind you i was in my room - for a split second to wear jeans to get into the ambulance but you accused me . what did u do from stopping him from falling? or the fact you didnt even get down on your knees to try CPR, u didnt even get ice for his head! you did not even move. you just went get ur phone and started calling people, no tears were streaming down your face, no sound, no screaming. where i was screaming as soon as i saw him on the floor but you? no. you just looked at him and me screaming. you did not console me, you didnt even check he was breathing, you did not help.
yet you, you as a mother accuse me of his death.
all i can say is you will regret that one day old lady.
2) Wedding. Yes, we sent invite from my husbands phone, I did not invite because you were insistant on wedding card. It was not necessary cause it was MCO, it was not necessary cause no one but you EXPECTED it. why just two people, who are "family" expect this? cause you want to forward to the world. Please consult any chinese person. after a parents passing they ask them to marry in 100days or 3years. yes i didnt mind 100days cause the only person who will and wants to take care of me is my husband, he and i both knew, without my husband i would have suicided. You as a mother would have abused me so much that i would have led myself to my own death. you are toxic and disgusting.
You did not realize a few situations happened! a) Saturday - Had to rush to shop, was pissed off Madam Chumpa came to my house and moved things so ended up locking my store room and my own room, my "so called mother" came after me, calling me a fucking bitch and wanting to hit me. WOW! she abused me that she would not come for my wedding with her hand raised, i SCREAMED "LEAVE ME ALONE". b) She left, she did not inform me you want me to message her after all her dirty accusations of me killing my father? of her wanting to hit me? of her saying shes a maid, no shes a queen now my dads not around she can go do what she wants, she would come home at 10/11pm when she could go out. she did not come back that night.
3) The lies of the Tuesday. Tuesday she came back to take her things, unfortunately, she found the door padlocked. she could have hired a lorry to take everything. Would that be fair for me on a 50% pay ? and what rights does she have to take EVERYTHING? she informed Amanda, Uncle Mohan, all the people she called liars, fakes and shit people. wow her son even informed my best friend but he vowed not to be dragged into this shit knowing me for ages. so no worries, but coming when i go to work shows you were up to something sneaky. you were up to no good. so your lies went viral - "you were kicked out" but hey liar. you left, on your own will, with your keys on saturday, you did not message or inform me or my husband where you are. We were so disgusted by you wanting to slap me, your accusations of abusing me i killed my dad? (which shit person says that!!!) and even telling my husband that when/if you die not to allow your daughter natasha to attend your funeral. what a sick thing to say. the manners you had to return back the tea ceremony ang pao to my husband shows what? that you suddenly don't accept him. and you have no daughter, so under what circumstances should i bow down and invite you for my wedding? you as a mother dont want to be there. you are sickening.
So here is your proof of disgusting lies.
you came anyways at night, we had CCTV! you took everything you could get your hands on.
you took a garbage bag and took everything you could from the fridge. Including 4 packets of milk, your favourite kids couldnt provide you? so please stop lying. stop saying you were kicked out. The news went from Penang, to india, to singapore, USA and more! wow i'm impressed. but this was payback right? revenge for 2017 when i asked people to ask you to come back (oh this story for another day!)
Your lies of tuesday and more have not ended.
so now you lied for 3 months you did not get food.
here is some whatsapp Chats.
so black and white not proof enough?
Here is your regular shit drama that papa hated of you saying you are a "maid". Hello, you did not work a day in your life. you got everything - food, tesco, wet market, all you did need to do is laundry and cook once in a while, papa asked you not to clean all the time if you are in pain or tired. You stopped going dialysis since 2020 March.
NEXT!
we went to clean the car in TESCO, because your son ruined my car feeding the cow throwing the plates, letting the dhal , rice and all spill when 12days. AND then there were cockroaches all over. We went to tesco to buy Mc D as valentines day, we asked you what you would like. so, the chat you mentioned, now how were you not fed for 3months?
you got what you wanted, i even remember buying you a nice sesame seed biscuit from market and you abused me at 7am saying i am not your ATM, yes, i am not. i am no ones ATM!!!!! you demanded tesco 3 times a week - yet wanted us to eat out... cause papa was fussy, your toxic abuse was too much.
food was for who? i dont know, didnt know. maybe your rich selfish Madam chumpa.
you stopped going to the market, i went, you asked for dhal. how is it you were not fed for 3 months if you did ask, i did give. i cant read minds. i bought you pumpkin (green) and asked you consistantly, what you wanted me to buy? but no, you just think i can read your mind.
I can't. no one can.
Dear Aunt , as much as i respect you, you don't respect us. you want to control us? you want us to patch up with people that toxic abused us. she sent a sarcastic message (like ha ha i know you are pregnant) its none of her business, we arent related. (that story on that bitch for another day!) but dear aunt, it is your loss. you lost people who arent rich but can care and respect you, but unfortunately.. respect works both ways, no matter what age each side is and who is elder or younger. it is sad that you disrespected us.
you say my husband would want me to patch up, no. he saw enough. he aint stupid. and im sorry if you think that we have no manners/respect/or are low class (maybe cause we are poor).
but thank you .
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